the giggle of falling leaves

Nature is such a support for me. To see the water flowing and the leaves falling from the trees, gives me relaxation. Everything is effortless in nature. So simple; Sprouting and growing is effortless – and dying too.

I am not able to crawl and climb in nature, as I have done earlier in life. If there is a little uphill or downhill, I am barely able to walk at the moment.

I hurt my knee, because I didn’t feel my own limit for how long I could sit on it. The morphine makes me not sense when my legs fall asleep or the pain from some sitting positions. Together with the pain from the metastasis in the tailbone, it limits how I can walk.

But I do drive to places where I can walk on flat forest roads, or I let nature in through an open window.

The palliative nurse suggests me to take a higher dose of morphine, so I can be completely without pain. I don’t want to. I wish to find the balance; Enough morphine for the body to be able to relax, so the pain does not make the whole body tense. But not so much that I don’t sense my body and don’t feel the pain that is there.

I am still learning, and still failing in that 😉

I love the autumn. The explosion of colors; celebration of the let-go. Nature has no drama about death, no holding on. And the crystal clear light; autumn was always my favorite time for photography in nature.

When I connect with nature, I feel no sadness in the thought of dying. I look at the trees, and it comes this inner knowing; that in reality I am not going anywhere.

This skin will not sense the caress of the wind. But I am the wind.

These ears will not hear the birdsong. But I am the song, and the bird.

These physical eyes will not see this beauty. But I am the beauty.

I am.

Everything. And Nothing.

The body, with its senses, will go back to the earth – like the autumn leaves or the fallen tree in the forest floor.

But the one that senses through my skin… The one that is hearing through my ears… The one that is seeing through my eyes… cannot die, cannot rotten.

There is a question that has been coming up in me these last days;

“Who is dying?”

A giggle answers from within.


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49 responses to “the giggle of falling leaves”

  1. Prem Madhu Roozen Avatar
    Prem Madhu Roozen

    Deeply touched beloved, smiling and tears at the same time. Walking the path ahead of me, of us, your fellow travelers. Much love and gratitude for giving this open, intimate window on your path.

    1. Thank you for touching my heart, beloved Savini. Thank you for sharing your process with us in such an open and truthfull way.
      It reminds what is relevant in life and what is not. Your beauty opens my heart.
      Love and gratitude.

      1. Thank you, beloved Kamal ❤️ It is beautiful to feel ❤️

    2. Thank you, beloved Madhu – and thank you for being in my life, walking this beautiful path together. I love you ❤️

  2. Samara Dietrichson Nesheim Avatar
    Samara Dietrichson Nesheim

    Thank you so much for sharing Savini.
    It is so beatifull to read and feel your words. Brings me to also feel what is most important and what certainly is not. Thank you.
    Just wish to send you lots of love and gratitude for all the love and beauty you share.

    1. Thank you, beautiful Samara ❤️ Thank you for your love and reflection ❤️

  3. My Beloved sister, once more you are opening my eyes and heart for what love and life really is. Once I dreamt with you and you had written a book called: Finding Love. That what you mean to me… The one who is finding love… It is so deep to feel closer to you now… To learn and see your beauty… I feel so blessed to have found you in this sacred journey… I love you my dear sister. Thank you for being who you are.
    (My only wish is that you feel no pain…)

    1. Beloved Sana, beloved sister
      I am so blessed to have met you too, and to walk this path together. Everything we have experienced, shared and learnt with each other through all those years… I love you, and I am immensely grateful to you ❤️

  4. Thank you for sharing this beautiful heart, dear sister. We are together. Love

    1. Thank you, dear Madhav ❤️ Much, much Love ❤️

  5. ❤️

    1. Thank you ❤️

  6. So beautiful ♥️ I can feel the beauty of the Autumn in my heart through your words now. The silent beauty of letting go in nature, as part of everything.
    A blessing that you can be in that space now beloved friend.
    Just love upon love to you

    1. Thank you, beloved ❤️

  7. En varm klem fra meg, fine, fine Savini ❤️

    1. God klem til deg kjære Sadhna – glad for å høre fra deg ❤️

  8. Kjære Savini! Takk for din deling og din kjærlighet. Dette berører meg sterkt. Og åpner mitt hjerte for nok en gang til å se hva som er viktig. Masse kjærlighet til deg fine Savini. 🖤

    1. Takk, kjære Mamta ❤️ For din kjærlighet og ditt åpne hjerte – for å være sammen på denne reisen – for å være deg ❤️

  9. You make the days real and beautiful beloved, deeply grateful to see you and be able to read your words one more day ♥️🙏🏽 thank you, I love you.

    1. I love you too, beloved ❤️ Thank you ❤️

  10. Kjære Savini❤️
    Leser dine vakre ord i dag.Så mye visdom og kjærlighet❤️
    Takk for du deler, forever in my ❤️

    1. Takk, kjære Alisha ❤️

  11. My beloved Savini ❤️
    When we last had a brief encounter during last retreat, I didn’t know then that cancer has developed into 4th stage… I wish I gave you a hug then… Reading your intimate shares brings tears of gratitude on my eyes. Thank you for reminding once again what’s really important. You are the one who received me in the sangha and took care when I was a first timer. I was always and still am looking up to you. Always so peaceful, with a beautiful smile and so much love in your eyes. And now you are showing how to leave so gracefully with so much beauty, showing what acceptance is. I love you so much! ❤️ Thank you! 🙏

    1. Beautiful Sakshi,
      Last time we met; I did not know yet myself. I was under examination during the retreat, but received the answers only in the week after. I am grateful to have met you and for the moments we have shared. I love you ❤️ And I am sending you a big, warm hug now ❤️

      1. ❤️

  12. Anisha Skeide Avatar
    Anisha Skeide

    So beautifull sharing❤️ Thank you 🙏

    1. Thank you, beloved ❤️

  13. Aishani Nyheim Avatar
    Aishani Nyheim

    Takk vakre Savini.
    Ja hvem dør? 😍
    Varm hjerte klem fra Aishani

    1. God, varm hjerteklem til deg også, kjære Aishani ❤️

  14. Asmani Merit Engström Avatar
    Asmani Merit Engström

    Beloved Savini!
    Thanks for a beautiful sharing..You have always been gifted in expressing the Beauty…❤️..;Now sharing so true and soft about your own death..😘🙏..;Yes we will sooner or later all go…and we Will always be together also;..in this love , in this alonenoss , in this oneness that we all are …I am happy I talked with you and your daughter -at the restaurant – last nov..retreat in Brasil..You where already then so accepting and at ease with your situation…
    Death is such a beautiful reminder;….Thanks so much for this….Love You Dear friend…Rejoice!..See You
    ! ❤️☀️🙏Asmani

    1. Thank you, beloved Asmani – I love you too – and, yes; we are together, we are one… And we are on a far out journey! 😍

  15. Beloved Savini, what a beautiful way to let go! Thank you for your words, reminding me that leaves change but life stays untouched. 🍃🍂
    The scent of earth and mulch in the autumn is so lovely.
    Much love to you, I wish you a soft landing 🙏❤️

    1. Yes, so lovely – the scent, the light, the colors – life and death ❤️ Us ❤️
      Thank you, beloved Poonam ❤️

  16. Savini, Kära kära vackra tysta blomma. Tack för att du delar om resa, din process. Jag känner mig djupt berörd. Känner tomhet- emptiness, space, tystnad, tillit och kärlek när jag läser. Tack för att du delar, transmittar din visdom. Tacksam över de möten jag haft med dig som betyder mycket. Mycket kärlek och värme till dig. Love Mumina

    1. Kjære, vakre Mumina ❤️
      Ja, vi har hatt mange møter som har betydd mye for meg også. Du har alltid hatt en vakker måte å løfte andre på ❤️
      Jeg håper du også løfter deg selv – og gjenkjenner skjønnheten i deg selv, slik du også gjenkjenner den i andre. Du har betydd mer for meg enn du aner ❤️
      Jeg elsker deg ❤️

  17. Kjære Savini❤️
    Jeg ble veldig berørt av delingen din. Og inni hjertet mitt takker jeg for alle fine og gøyale stunder vi har delt, og måten du har vært tilstede på, alltid med en egen fredfull stille ro og tillit til det som skjer. En ro jeg føler når jeg leser ordene dine, så mye visdom og kjærlighet og en påminnelse til det som er viktig i livet og det som ikke er det❤️ Takk for alt du er Savini og jeg sender deg mange gode klemmer og varme tanker

    1. Takk, kjære Nandika ❤️ Og, JA, takknemlighet for alle fine, gode, morsomme stunder vi har delt – og for å være på denne reisen sammen 🥰

  18. Bhauli Martine Svitlana Hell Avatar
    Bhauli Martine Svitlana Hell

    Beloved Savini,
    Thank you for the beautiful sharing of your situation with gigles and positivity. You are strong woman, strong in spirit. Wish you will fly high into other dimention in full consciousness/awareness, in love and bliss…
    It is bliss to return to our real home…
    Let angels be on your side and support you on the way coming home…
    Sending you a lot of warm hugs and love vibrations from the heart 💕💜
    With deep understanding
    Bhauli

    1. Thank you, beloved. Strong and helpless, human and divine – we are the whole rainbow 🌈❤️🙏🏻

  19. Dorje Roozen Avatar
    Dorje Roozen

    Beloved Savini, beloved sister,
    How beautifull and intimate to be able to read about your proces. Writing the word `your proces` i know it is a proces for all of us, not knowing who is going to de first.

    When i read the acceptance in this proces of change i remember a story you shared with me a couple of years ago.
    You told the moments having also a encounter with the proces of change just before divorcing and not knowing what would happen.

    Sitting on the balcony of your house in despair smoking the whole day 2 cigarettes together in both hands. Only a white car passing by daily, gave your a feeling of rest not knowing who was driving by. That was the beginning of the proces with our Master.
    And now so much years later in his Presence there is such a different attitude to the proces of change.
    Thank you so much for your sharing, you are a guide in the proces we all will go.

    1. Thank you, beloved Dorje, for reminding me about this – Yes, life has changed immensely since I saw that car passing on the road 🥰 I love you!

  20. Kjære kjære Savini,
    Så sterkt å lese hva du deler og står midt oppi, det beveger og berører meg dypt.
    Så sterkt å lese at du er på vei videre til det stedet vi alle vil reise til før eller siden.
    Det er så uvirkelig men samtidig når jeg leser det så skjønner jeg at det er virkelig, det gjør meg trist.
    Jeg tenker på det fine møte vi hadde ved frokosten i sommer, det var så koselig, nært og så fint, det blir plutselig et så dyrebart minne videre.
    Du har en stor gave med ordene du deler, det har du alltid hatt.
    Det minner meg om noe du skrev for mange år siden , om å lytte til hjertet…..du fant det, nå vet du!♥️
    Kjære kjære Savini, takk for mange fine møter gjennom mange år.
    Bildet fra deg som henger på veggen min med ordet Velsignelse,har betydd mye for meg opp igjennom årene, det har hengt der som en påminnelse om hvor velsignet jeg er, nå får bildet en helt ny betydning og jeg skal bringe det med meg videre som et dyrebart minne, er sted hvor du alltid vil være med meg!♥️
    Ord blir fattige, jeg sender deg styrke, lys og kjærlighet vakre venn på veien videre mot det ukjente men samtidig kjente!

    Glad i deg!

    En stor varm hjerte klem,
    Meena!♥️

    1. Kjære, vakre Meena,
      Takk for hva du skriver ❤️ Og for alt du har vært for meg ❤️
      Ja, jeg husker den teksten eller opplevelsen bak teksten… 🥰
      Stor, varm klem til deg også ❤️

  21. Beloved sister….
    Thank you for your sharing…
    I can’ t find words… just feeling you…
    I wish I had healing power to cure you… or at least take all your pain away…
    May you find a confort way to enjoy the the precious moments that you have…
    A harm and tender hug…
    Love, always…
    Maitri

    1. Thank you, beloved ❤️

  22. Beloved sister, thank you for your beautiful and open sharing about your process and about death. I can see it is a challenging experience and how to deal with it. It reminds us how vulnerable we are as human being and that the death can come at any moment. That is why we should be grateful for being alive and love one and other as much as we can. Osho says that we think that we can live forever. But it is not, everybody will die sooner or later. It is about how we have lived our life. That is most important. If we have lived our life totally and enjoyed our life as much as we can then our death should become our peak of our life. Osho says also that we don’t belong to this earth, because we belong to the heaven above. This earthly life is a passage to the eternal. Let us all walk to the peak of our life and see that death is not an end but a beginning of something new. The death reminds of us that we have to let go each moment. By accepting of that letting go we can experience freedom again and again. Thank you for courage to talk about it. Most people don’t want to talk about it. By facing our fears, then we can go beyond it. Let’s travel and go from eternity to eternity. That is who we are. We are always together and forever in life and also in death. Namaste sister, blessings to you.

    1. “This sky where we live is no place to lose your wings so love, love, love.”
      – Hafiz –

      This quote came to me when I read your comment. Thank you, beloved Darshan ❤️

      Much, much love to you ❤️

  23. Dear Savini so beautiful that you are sharing about this, that is so precious, a gift.
    Thank you beautiful sister.
    Big hug and lots of love and support to you. ❤️🌸❤️

    1. Thank you, beloved ❤️

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